Wednesday, August 15, 2007

GIRLS vs GROWN WOMEN

Girls :Leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women : Make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

Girls : Want to control the man in their life.
Grown women : Know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls : Check you for not calling them.
Grown women : Are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls : Are afraid to be alone.
Grown women : Revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls : Ignore the good guys.
Grown women : Ignore the bad guys.

Girls : Make you come home.
Grown women : Make you want to come home.

Girls : Worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women : Know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls : Try to monopolize all their man's time ( I.e.don't want him hanging with his friends)Grown women : Realize that a lil' bit of space makes the'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls : Think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women : Offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls : Want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women : 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls : Get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women : Know that that was just one man.

Girls : Fall in love and chase aimlessly after the objectof their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women : Know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.